Planning a Small Wedding at Sleeping Bear Dunes
So—you’re trying to plan a micro wedding at Sleeping Bear Dunes, and I get it because it’s quite literally one of my favorite places – and that’s coming from someone who has traveled all over the world. This is one of the most serene and breathtaking places to have an intimate wedding, but planning a wedding here—especially a smaller one—comes with a few logistics. That’s where this guide comes in. I’m breaking it all down so you can stress less and enjoy more of what actually matters: your people, your vows, and that lake view.
Why Sleeping Bear Dunes is the best choice for a small wedding
This place has a way of slowing you down. The wind off Lake Michigan, the view from the bluffs, the silence at sunrise… it just lends itself to intimacy and intentionality. Small weddings here feel real—not rushed or performative. They’re about the people, the vows, and the view. That’s probably why it’s my favorite place to shoot at, because I love capturing people authentically. No fakey stiff poses. I want to photograph real stories – the way people really are.
And if you’re still weighing whether to elope or go tiny with your guest list, check out this real Sleeping Bear Dunes elopement I captured. It’s proof that simplicity can be everything.
Step 1: Figure Out Who You Want To Invite
Before booking anything, think about what kind of day feels like you.
Do you want it to just be the two of you? A handful of loved ones? A sandy dinner picnic with 15 of your favorites?
Knowing your guest count early will help determine your ceremony spot, lodging, and how much planning help you’ll need. (Hint: I’m here for that.)
Step 2: Get Your Permit (The Earlier the Better)
Yes, even small weddings at Sleeping Bear Dunes need a permit—but don’t stress, I’ve got you. I wrote a whole guide on how to get your Sleeping Bear Dunes wedding permit here.
The National Park Service just wants to make sure everyone’s being respectful of the land (which, let’s be honest, we all want). You’ll want to apply early, especially during peak season!
Step 3: Choose the Right Spot
There are so many gorgeous corners of this park—Empire Bluff, Pierce Stocking drive, and even tucked-away spots near Glen Arbor.
Need help deciding? I put together a guide to my top engagement session locations, but these spots double beautifully for ceremonies, too. If you want something a little off the beaten path or totally private, I can help scout the right place. 🙂
Also peep this dreamy engagement session for inspo—it’s Empire magic.
Step 4: Find Vendors Who Get the Vibe & Vendors You Actually Like
When you’re planning a smaller wedding, you want vendors who aren’t just showing up with a checklist—but ones who actually get it. Think: photographers who know how to work with wind (hi), private chefs who can cook fireside, or florists who know how to design with foraged beauty in mind. You want vendors you enjoy being around, because they’re going to be there throughout your wedding day – and it’s important they don’t drive you nutty. haha
My all-inclusive package includes vendor recs I trust, plus planning support so you’re not Googling “intimate wedding florists Northern Michigan” at midnight. If you’re looking for a take charge, bubbly, highly experienced, and trustworthy micro wedding expert, inquire here.
Step 5: Time it Right
If you want warm weather, sunset light, and fewer crowds, this blog about the best time to get married at Sleeping Bear Dunes breaks it all down.
Spoiler alert: early summer and fall are chef’s kiss. But every season has its perks—and I’ll help you build a timeline around the best light and most peaceful part of the day.
Step 6: Plan for Lodging, Meals, and “The Day Before”
Whether you’re renting a cozy cabin or staying lakeside, make it a weekend experience. Spend the day before your wedding hiking, kayaking, or just soaking in time with your people.
Want a private dinner on the beach? I’ve seen couples hire local chefs or pick up pizza from a Glen Arbor favorite and make it special with candles and a blanket. You can keep it simple and memorable.
Check out some fun activities to do around Sleeping Bear here
Step 7: Where to Stay Near Sleeping Bear Dunes
There are some seriously cute spots to stay that will keep you close to the dunes (without feeling too touristy). Some of my favorites:
- Glen Arbor: Laid-back cabin rentals, super close to the dunes
- Empire: Tiny town charm, right near Empire Bluff Trail
- Leland: A little more “up north cozy” with easy access to Lake Michigan beaches
- Maple City: Great if you want to feel tucked away in the woods
Pro tip: Book early, especially if you’re planning for summer or early fall!
Step 8: Budgeting for a Sleeping Bear Dunes Wedding
One of the best parts about planning a small wedding at Sleeping Bear Dunes is that it can be way more budget-friendly than a traditional wedding—but costs can still add up depending on what you include.
Here’s a rough breakdown of what you might expect:
- Permit Fees: Around $100–$300 depending on group size (more details here).
- Photography: High-quality coverage for small weddings (like my all-inclusive package) typically starts around $3,000–$5,000. (Includes planning help, vendor recs, and all the dreamy film options.)
- Officiant: Plan around $300–$800, depending if you bring someone you know or hire a local pro. I can also help you find the right match.
- Florals: A small bouquet and boutonniere can range from $150–$500. If you want a ceremony arch or larger installs, budget more.
- Lodging: Cozy Airbnbs or cabins typically run $285–$750+ per night, depending on location and size.
- Meals: If you do a private chef, catered picnic, or small dinner celebration, plan for $30–$100+ per guest.
- Transportation: Rental cars, park entrance fees, and shuttling guests (if needed) can add a few hundred dollars depending on the plan.
Average total cost for a SMALL Sleeping Bear Dunes wedding usually falls somewhere between $5,000–$12,000, depending on how fancy or laid-back you want it.
Pro tip: Since you’re saving big on a giant venue and catering minimums, a lot of couples splurge a little more on things that matter most to them—like an amazing photographer (hey heyy!) or a private chef lakeside meal.
Here’s my full guide on budgeting your Michigan wedding
Step 9: Weather Tips for Sleeping Bear Dunes Weddings
“Up north” weather has its own vibe—here’s what to know:
- Layers are your friend: It can swing 20+ degrees in one day!
- Sand gets HOT: Bring water, sunscreen, and easy-to-kick-off shoes.
- Lake effect fog happens: It’s actually gorgeous for photos but can roll in fast—plan for flexibility.
- Bugs love you at dusk: Especially in the summer. Bug spray = essential.
Step 10: Sample Small Wedding Timeline
Here’s a simple example to help you start dreaming:
- 4:00 pm: Get ready at your cabin/Airbnb
- 5:30 pm: Hike to ceremony spot
- 6:00 pm: Private ceremony
- 6:30 pm: Portraits at sunset
- 7:30 pm: Champagne pop or picnic dinner
- 8:00 pm: First dance barefoot on the beach (because why not?)
Of course, we’ll customize your real timeline to match your day.
For more extensive micro wedding timelines, take a peek here
Step 10: Pack Right + Leave No Trace
The weather can change quickly here, especially by the water. Pack layers, windproof things, and walkable shoes (yes, even under your dress). Bring a bag for trash and leave the dunes exactly as you found them.
Small weddings = small footprint = big impact when it comes to protecting this beautiful place.
Bonus: How I Help Couples Plan Their Sleeping Bear Dunes Wedding
This isn’t just a shoot-and-go kind of thing. I offer an all-inclusive package made for tiny weddings at Sleeping Bear. It includes:
- Unlimited time coverage (I am all about
- Location scouting
- Help with permits and logistics
- Timeline planning based on your vision
- Helping with other vendors, etc
- The option of either a second shooter or engagement session
- The option to add on 35mm film + Super 8 (because nostalgia)
- Unlimited zoom calls & hands-on support
Basically? I help make it easy, beautiful, and 100% true to you.
Final Thoughts
Your Sleeping Bear Dunes wedding doesn’t need to be big or complicated to be unforgettable. You just need the right people, a little planning help, and space to breathe in that Lake Michigan air and say, “This is us.”
Ready to start planning? Reach out here, and let’s bring your dunes wedding to life.
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