You feel it, right? That little tingle that maybe, just maybe, your partner is planning something big?
If you’re wondering whether a proposal is just around the corner, you’re not alone — and honestly, you’re probably onto something.

As a photographer who’s been lucky enough to witness (and help plan!) countless proposals (as well as experience my own like 8 years ago hehe), I’m here to spill the tea on some of the most common signs that a ring might be in your very near future.

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1. They Suddenly Have Big Opinions About Your Jewelry Taste

If they’re casually quizzing you about metals, stones, and settings… they’re up to something.

2. They’re Acting a Little…Nervous

Suddenly pacing, sweating, or being way too casual about a big date night? Classic pre-proposal jitters.

3. They’re Planning a Fancy Date — and Being Vague About It

If they say “just trust me” and you spot them triple-checking the weather forecast, grab a cute outfit.

4. They’ve Been Saving Money (and It’s Not for a New Xbox)

Rings are sparkly…and expensive. Budgeting = a sign of commitment and a future shiny thing.

5. They’re Hanging Out With Your Family More Than Usual

Extra bonding with your crew? Sweet. Quiet convos with your dad? Suspicious.

6. They’re Suddenly Very Sentimental

(Random “I love you so much” text? Late-night heart-to-hearts? A flood of mushy feels usually means something big is brewing.)

7. Your Friends Are Acting Suspicious

If your bestie suddenly can’t maintain eye contact when you talk about upcoming plans — oh, they know.

8. They’re SUPER Protective of a Backpack, Jacket, or Nightstand

Guarding a secret? Maybe a little blue box? 🫢

9. They’re Weirdly Interested in Everyone’s Schedules

Smoothly trying to find a time when you, your family, and maybe a sneaky photographer are free (heyyy!)

10. Your Gut Is Screaming at You

If you know, you know. Trust the vibes.

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Bonus: Need Help Planning the Perfect Proposal?

Hi, it’s me!
If your partner secretly recruits me to capture your proposal — or if you’re the one plotting the big moment — I’m your go-to hype girl.
I don’t just photograph proposals — I help plan them, down to the secret cues, dream location scouting, and timing the perfect sunset.

Let’s start planning your epic “yes” moment!

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FAQ: How to Tell If Your Partner Is About to Propose

🥂 How early do people usually start planning a proposal?

Anywhere from a few months to a few very panicked weeks. If they’re suddenly obsessed with making “special plans,” it’s game on.

💅 Should I get a manicure just in case?

Honestly? If you’re asking this question, yes. Worst case scenario: you have cute nails for zero dollars of regret. Best case scenario: sparkling hand selfies.

🥸 What if I accidentally ruin the surprise?

You literally cannot ruin it. Even if you know it’s coming, the moment will still make your heart do that weird happy drum solo thing. (Plus, your partner will probably be so nervous they won’t even notice if you’re onto them.)

📸 Can you help with planning and photos?

HECK YES. I’m basically a secret agent for proposals. I’ll help find the perfect spot, nail the timing, hide in a bush if I have to, and capture every teary, giggly, “oh my gosh!” moment.

Click here to chat and let’s get your dream proposal in motion!

Read up on some real life examples of how others realized their partner was about to propose

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